Wednesday, March 23, 2022

Going, Going, Gone

The case of the missing clothing has been solved.

The items did not fall through a portal, back of the closet into another dimension. They were simply stuck in clutter.

Except for two tops, that had seen better days, and a pair of worn thin leggings and a few tops — never worn, tags still on, I didn’t get rid of much.

The better days items went to the dumpster, those with tags still on are going to Twin 2.

Items not worn in years, just taking up space, but which I want to hold onto for the time being, are now out of the way, stored in clear containers — like the skirts and blazers I’ve not worn since 2017.

What’s remains in the closet is athletic wear, because that’s all I wear these days — leggings and tops.

Marie Kondo, the maven of organization, suggests "Organize clothes by category, putting the same items all together in one area", which is pretty much what I did — right to left starting with black tops with designs on the front, brightly colored plain tops, black short sleeve tops, sleep tops, black no sleeve tops, leggings, jackets.

While organizing the closet, I even found that blood pressure monitor that went missing in November.

How it went from the front room, ended up in the bedroom closet, on a top shelf pushed behind a three-hold punch, is a mystery — maybe it levitated on its own; but now I have two because, unable to find it, I’d purchased another.

If all goes as planned, next to go is the dentist. The permanent crown gets placed on tomorrow and then I’m moving on to a dentist I can trust — one that won’t cheat me, lie to me in order to meet his quota or pay off his student loans.

Judging by the negative reviews popping up on Yelp, I'm not the first to go since the staff changes and probably won't be the last.

Reviewer 1: "I have been a patient for 12 years, I'm aware with Covid some employees didn't return back, but the new employees are not nice, very poor bed side manner, especially Carolina the X-ray tech. You can honestly tell she hates her job. The moral over all has changed in the office I'm deeply saddened, my kids have grown up here and are so comfortable. but I think it's time to look else where!"

Reviewer 2: "This is an update from my review a couple years ago. During COVID the true colors of this company came out. They have a terrible business ethic and have zero disregard for their patients. They have mislead many of their patients during COVID after they laid off all their senior hygienists and dentists. If you love your teeth and your health do not go to this office. All they care about is money and not the patient".

I, myself, have no complaints about the new staff, including the X-Ray Tech. It’s just that I don’t trust either of the two new dentists.

I can’t imagine what a shock it must be to my long-time dentist McDreamy (named thusly because of his handsome face, blue eyes, silver grey hair) that he, and his team, have been "laid off" from a practice they caused to thrive. In fact, McDreamy was credited with being one of the three best dentists in the area.

It probably won't hurt this new team much that us long-timers are leaving, because there’s a sucker born every minute — newcomers won't know what they're doing isn't in the client's interest, but born of greed.

I’m just sorry I let Dr. C sucker me into work I’m not even now sure needed to be done at the hefty cost of $2,974.40!, work that I’m also not sure he’s done correctly or that might cause a future problem where none needed to be.

The good news is, it's the last money he'll get out of me.

Thinking I was boo boo the fool, he laid out a plan for more exorbitant "needed" work and will probably tomorrow be asking about when I plan to schedule that work.

I'll lie to him, like he's lied to me.

Tell him I want to wait, see how the work he's done turns out.

17 comments:

  1. I also hate trying to find new Medical/Dental Teams and am saddened when it becomes necessary, usually due to the previous Team leaving. I had a Diabetic Specialist I didn't Trust nor feel comfortable with the Care she provided, I do Love my new one tho', so sometimes a change works out very well. Too bad you spent so much before you got an inkling things weren't square with this Dentist, I knew you really liked McDreamy and hoped he was just temporarily absent.

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    1. I'm hoping McDreamy will take his team and open up his own practice. I'll be Googling his name, from time to time, just in case.

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  2. The first dentist I had here in Edmonton was good and trustworthy although he could be a domineering asshole from time to time. Once he snapped at me like I was a child or something, so I tore a huge strip off him for that. I never had another problem with him, though. He wasn't used to women standing up to him. Anyway, he died quite suddenly and relatively young, and his new young associate fresh out of dental school took over. Well. The first thing the associate did was tell me I needed a bunch of dental work, which I knew was bullshit, so I was out of there right away! My friends recommended another dentist (a young woman this time) who has proved to be good and trustworthy ever since.

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    1. This is the first time I've dealt with this. Always had good, trustworthy dentists, but they kept retiring.

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  3. I read your title of this blog entry, and thought maybe Karen was going, going, gone. Your closet is connected to outer space! Linda in Kansas

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    1. So long as things go missing IN the closet and nothing unwanted comes OUT, I'm good.

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  4. It sounds anal, but I organize my closet and all my dresser drawers by color and type. It sure does make it easier to put things away and to find just what you're looking for.

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    1. Not anal at all. Marie Kondo would be proud of you :-)

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  5. I have to laugh about your dentist "McDreamy". My wife, and later I, were treated by an orthopaedist who she instantly named "Dr. Lovely". Not to his face, of course. And even I had to admit he was uncommonly handsome.

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    1. It helps, while in the chair, to be distracted by a handsome face.

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  6. McDreamy had to go somewhere. FIND HIM!

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  7. I love the satisfaction I get from cleaning out closets. Mine is overdue. As for dentists, I chose an orthodontist who seemed great — until I paid half the money and the work began. I went through more than 4 years with her, regretting my choice all the while. After the work was all done and she was paid in full, I found an amazing orthodontist (and dentist) for the follow-ups. SO frustrating.

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    1. It does give me a satisfying feeling to open the closet door, see how organized everything is. I hear you about regret. The signs were there but I didn't pay attention to them until I'd let him do the crown work.

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  8. Don't you just love that we have online reviews these days? I can't imagine making a purchase or healthcare decision without them. Or in this case, they validate your own reflections.
    Glad you got your closet mystery figured out.

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    1. I'm working on wording for MY review. Something along the lines of "Fool me once ...". I'm open to suggestions on what words come next. Got the closet mystery solved, but now can't find my lady shaver. There must be a Naria in the medicine cabinet.

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  9. I'm don't blame you for not wanting to go back to him.
    I always find things that went missing when I clean out a closet.

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