So, the day started off
okay.
After performing the
morning ritual, I hopped on the indoor bike to do the homework the trainer had
given me.
On the days I’m not
working out with him, except Sunday ─ my one day of rest, I am to do 30 minutes
of cardio.
After the bike I
hopped online, read blogs, email and saw that my new fitness tracker had
arrived and was available for pick up at the big box store.
Killing two birds
with one stone, I took some of the cookware the instant pot rendered obsolete down
to the car, as I’d be driving pass Goodwill.
That’s two down, a
steamer and miscellaneous other cookware to go.
Arriving at the Big Box
store, I decided to use the women’s facility before picking up my order AND
when I exited the ladies’ room, there was this big burly security guard
standing outside the door.
Didn’t think anything
of it until, remembering I also needed another set of earbuds, I began walking
through the store trying to find them.
When I finally gave
up searching on my own and looked up to find someone to assist me, I noticed
the security guard was standing in the area, eyes on me.
What the heck!
Upon getting
assistance in locating and deciding on which earbuds to purchase, I walked over
to the pick-up counter, got my pre-ordered item, was paying for the earbuds,
looked up and once again ... there was that security guard standing in the
area, eyes on me.
As I completed my
purchases, I pulled out my cellphone to take a photo of him but wouldn’t you
know ... he was done with making sure I didn't steal anything and had disappeared.
Leaving the store, I left
a message for the security guard with the kid who stands at the door checking
receipts. “Your security guard followed me to the ladies’ room and through the
entire store. Tell him I said he was wasting his time”.
Though these
incidents of being profiled are NOW a lot fewer and further between, it’s maddening when they do. Last time was back in August at the craft store.
It's a mean thing to hope for but I always hope that while wasting time watching me someone else is stealing them blind.
At any rate, I’m
happy to be able to track my activity once again. I’ve been without a tracker for
weeks, since shortly after I’d mentioned the strap broke and I repaired with duct
tape.
I’m not all that
materialistic, so I was happy with a duct tapped tracker. But then the battery
failed. It took time to find the correct battery, but then I couldn’t put the
battery in because I needed a tiny Phillip’s screwdriver to get the battery
compartment open. That took several more weeks to get, but then the screws were
in so tight I couldn’t get the compartment open.
Finally giving up on
the old tracker, the batteries and the Phillip’s screwdriver, I spent a few
days researching trackers before deciding on a Vivosmart 4, but then I had to
wait a week for notice it had arrived and was available for pickup at the Big Box
store, only to get there and be profiled.
I’m not naming names
as to WHERE this occurred, but ....
It’s an insane world.
The Orange Traitor seemingly is off the hook due to Mueller’s report. We're stuck with him and probably for two terms. Jussie
Smollett also is off the hook due to who knows why, while my old law-abiding arse
is getting profiled for shopping while Black.
I had a similar thing happen in the not too distant past and I'm a little old white woman. I forget where I was but when I got home I told my daughter that I thought I was being watched by a store employee. I'll confess, it really felt weird and I didn't like it.
ReplyDeleteYes. It gives you a weird uncomfortable feeling. Especially when they make it deliberately obvious in an effort to intimidate. I'm almost tempted to find a reason to go back, buy something, then ask to speak to a manager if it happens again. I'd ask that, after so many years of purchasing expensive electronics from that store and not stealing anything, what is it about me that necessitates security focusing on me and me alone in a store full of customers.
ReplyDeleteI've got a story too. I hadn't been to the Science Center in a long time so I decided to go one day. It was school trip day. There must have been 500 6-7 year olds running around the place. Here I was, a lone white male, wandering around. It wasn't long that I noticed I had a tail. A black security guard. I let him follow me a while. Then I just turned around and stared at him. The staring contest lasted about 30 seconds when he decided to move along.
ReplyDeleteI'd forgotten about that. I'm sure you don't have a chance to forget before you get reminded again.