Today was that other Friday ………… Bingo Friday.
To explain why the afternoon went the way it did, let me start off by saying, I’m hanging on by a thread ……… my nerves on edge because I have a bad feeling about the outcome of this election, and I wasn’t looking forward to fulfilling my responsibility of participating in bingo, mingling with people, taking photos, updating the resident’s FB page.
So, that was my state of mind when, after the morning’s workout, I rushed back to the complex and, as I always do every other Friday, hurried into the Community Room to claim a seat at a table where I can easily take photos — set up bingo cards, placed a container of glass chips next to the cards, and left my water bottle to indicate the spot was taken.
Then I rushed upstairs, changed out of workout clothes, grabbed my Witches Brew thermos, filled it with coffee, and made it back down to the Community Room about five minutes before the start of bingo.
Walking into the room, I see the place was crowded and two of the usual suspects were sitting at the table I’d set up, which was okay. I wasn’t taking ownership of the entire table, just that spot.
Problem is, the two had taken over the spot I’d prepared. Gone were the cards and the water bottle.
I pitched a fit ……… "Where’s my stuff!? ……… What's happened to my spot!?"
Turned out the two had walked in, and instead of adding themselves to the table with the prepared spot, decided to take the table over so they could sit together, just the two of them.
Giving them the benefit of doubt, one can say the two don’t have common sense — not seeing a body occupying the space, it just did not compute to them that the water bottle, et al, meant someone was sitting there. They asked the organizers to take it away and evidently the organizers can’t put two and two together either, as they did as requested, took it all away.
On the other hand, it just might be the two old biddies thought they could just do what they wanted to do, and whoever had planned to sit there would just quietly let it be.
Like I said, I’m on edge, now is not the time to push me.
When I walked right up and confronted the two of them, they realized I was royally pissed, began grabbing their stuff to get up and move, but I said "Never mind. I’ll find somewhere else to sit".
I ended up joining Di at a table in the back corner, which meant I had to get up and walk further to take photos of players as they won.
It took me a while to get back to center, and call it Karma when neither of the two won a game — and one of the two is usually lucky, always wins at least the two game limit and then sometimes the Blackout game. She's just lucky but to my enjoyment, not this time.
On the other hand, I won — Game 7 and chose another oven mitt as my prize, this one came with a potholder.
Actually, I won two games — Game 7 and Game 9, but did not call bingo on Game 9 because there was nothing else on the prize table I wanted or needed.
I doubt I’ll be in a better frame of mind Friday after next, so there will be hell to pay if my setup is messed with yet again.
On the other hand, it might give me the excuse I need to get out of the bingo responsibility — turn around, walk out in a huff, refuse to participate again.
My luck, things will go smoothly next time.
You readers might recall Manager telling Red Light that she didn’t want her coming around here. Told Activity Director to not let Red Light participate in activities.
Well, Red Light is bold as brass defying Manager. She joined us for bingo today.
Manager has no control over who can and who cannot participate in activities the residents themselves have organized. The only way she can stop Red Light from participating in our activities is to threaten the organizers that she will no longer allow us to use the Community Room for bingo or anything else.
She’s petty enough to go that route if she can’t get Corporate’s permission to formally ban Red Light from the property.
Stay tuned.
It was pretty rude to remove items obviously marking a saved spot. Playing dumb doesn't make it right. But - what a great potholder set!!!
ReplyDeleteYou're right about their playing dumb, but I think my reaction scared them straight.
DeleteI would have made the two biddies move. I'm a bitch that way. But I would have explained why I needed that particular spot, in order to do a job on the FB page that benefits all the residents and bingo players.
ReplyDeleteI'm getting that way. Lucky for them I'm off kilter right now but not yet completely off center or I probably would have.
DeleteI think Debra has the best idea.
DeleteI guess those old biddies never learned the international symbol for SOMEONE IS SITTING HERE!!!! I would have moved them and told them that the next time I would pee on my chair to mark my turf.
ReplyDeleteThat'll send 'em running.
Maybe I should do what some of the girls would do in high school gym. They'd leave fake vomit, that looked real enough that no one was going to chance it, on the floor of the cubicle to mark their territory.
DeleteI am on edge too. I cannot even go into my studio right now. Making art is too much for my state of mind. I don't sleep. The only thing I can do is walk. Long walks. But then I listen to podcasts which does not really help. The fear is palpable. Be well, Roberta
ReplyDeleteIt says a lot that I don't even watch or read election news and, like you said, the fear is still palpable.
DeleteRick Wilson of The Lincoln Project keeps saying. "Don't drink the poison." It is hard not to but we need to try. They are spewing so much of it out there!
DeleteSo much ugliness. Hard to believe the level of criminality, lack of ethics, self interest in government and stupidity of some voters.
DeleteDid you lose your water bottle? JanF
ReplyDeleteNo. One of the organizers moved it to the table they were seated at to get it out of the way. Which to me, since the organizer did not toss it in the trash, is some kind of indication that organizer knew it belonged to someone who'd planned to sit there. She evidently catered to the two biddies.
DeleteNext time try writing your name on your water bottle. Might not help but at least they'll know who they are being rude to. People where I live leave things like water, keys, phones at places they want to hold for events like bingo. I can't believe what those old biddies did!
ReplyDeleteGod only knows what they would have done with my phone, had I left it to mark the spot. That's a good idea about the name so they'd "know who they are being rude to", LOL.
DeleteThat's a cute oven mitt. Manager seems spiteful and it wouldn't surprise me if she did something like that to keep red light away.
ReplyDeleteI can definitely see her coming up with something like that. I won't be sorry to see bingo go if she does that, but wouldn't like to see it go that way.
DeleteYou are a force to reckon with, Shirley. (BTW, check my Friday Funnies if you haven't.)
ReplyDeleteI did earlier this morning, but don't think I left a comment. I lurked you and often do LOL.
DeleteOH WAIT!!! I didn't see the post before the one I read this morning. You 😈you 🤣
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