Thursday, January 12, 2023

Family Heirloom?

A few days ago, my heartbeat skipped a little when I heard the announcement on TV that a lottery ticket worth $4 million was purchased at a liquor store in Southern California. Alas, looking up at the screen, the pictured liquor store was not the one where I purchase my tickets.

At least I won $20 on a scratch off and $4 on two Mega tickets. It isn’t much when one considers the pot was $1.35 billion at that time; but I’ll take it, roll it over, try again.

When Twin 2 dropped in on Tuesday, it wasn’t to meet Bear but to return a workout tee that’s been in use some 30+ years, saying she was "working on detachment, starting with tangible things".

Sounds very Zen of her.

At any rate, I said "Don’t donate or throw it away. Give it to me to be added to the t-shirt quilt I’ve been one day planning to make from my race shirts".

The tee in question is one I purchased and began wearing in my late 40’s. I don’t know how Twin 2 came into possession, but she’d sent me a photo in 2013 of her wearing it.




Twin 2 just celebrated her 55th birthday, so the shirt having served the both of us well all these many decades, it’s fitting to retire it, add it to the t-shirt quilt stack.

Once I get around to working on that quilt — which won’t be until I finish this never-ending needlepoint project, I’ll make this tee the centerpiece of the quilt.

I looked for similar tees for when I was pushing 60, then 70. There were none then, but there are a few out there now.

Seeing this tee reminded me to take a stab at one saying "Pushing 80 is enough exercise". I found one had been available, but was discontinued some time ago.

I could make one, but I’ve enough crafting projects on my plate.

So, anyway, as I was moving containers around to get to the t-shirt quilt stack so I could add this one, I ran across my own stuffed buddy — a horse I'd stored away a few years ago.

Ride ‘Em Cowboy

Along about 2:00, Bear and I spotted Yazzy, her grandma and another neighbor sitting on the walkway's bench.


How dare they
, I thought. Bold a brass sitting there while I'm still Bearsitting (Thanks commenter).

I yell down to Talker, "Doesn't she want Bear back?"

"Oh, I forgot to tell her".

Sigh!

Once told, Yazzy couldn't get up here fast enough.


She missed Bear just as much as he missed her.

Yazzy loved the book, grandma Talker and the other neighbor gushed over it, talked about how creative it was.

So, there you have it folks. A happy ending.

End of the saga.

Bear has left the unit.

Wednesday, January 11, 2023

Further Adventures

Looking at all the weather related chaos of the last two weeks on the news, I’ve been very fortunate. Even to the point that on the days when it was a downpour, those were days I had nothing planned, did not have to leave the unit ─ like yesterday. On days I had to head for the Pain Cave, it was either just overcast and drizzling or a complete break in the rain, with the sun shining ─ like today.

During yesterday’s downpour, Bear sat at the window all day watching and waiting for Yazzy to come down the walkway, take him home, but no Yazzy.


It wasn’t raining the day before, when Yazzy was on the complex visiting her grandma, but still no Yazzy.

I say "visiting".

Trainer says "babysitting".

I’d not thought of it that way before, but he’s right.

Did grandma not tell her, or does Yazzy not care?

Could this be the thing to steer her away from knocking on my door — the idea of having to take Bear home?

Time will tell, but if Bear isn’t picked up by Friday, he will be playing bingo; and, if Talker shows up, I’ll hand him over before I have to start charging him rent, or billing Yazzy and her grandma for caregiver services.

Speaking of caregivers, Trainer had me ROFLMAO on Monday when he asked, "What’s the oldest age over there?"

"I honestly don’t know, but I do know we have a few in their 90’s", said I.

"What kind of shape are they in?"

"Some still have a degree of mobility, with the use of canes and walkers, but aren't seen out and about often. Some still drive. Others are pretty much bedridden, have people who check on them daily ─ bring in food, water, pick up their mail, do their laundry and some are checked on by visiting nurses. Others have relatives living with them".

Trainer was surprised … "THEY CAN DO THAT?! HAVE RELATIVES LIVING WITH THEM???!!!"

"Sure. They sign up as caregivers, get paid by the county".

"FREE RENT AND A CHECK????!!!! If you ever need a caregiver, I’m telling V___ (his wife) I’m out, I’m leaving you. Shirley needs a caregiver".

ROFLMAO!

So anyway, Bear got to meet Twin 2 when she stopped by yesterday.


Bear still with me this morning, I belted him in the Jeep — safety first, and off we went to the Pain Cave, where he got in the ring and spared with Trainer's Baby Yoda, worked out on the battle ropes, planked with me and took a group photo with those arriving for the next class ─ Trainer's elite fighters. After which we popped into the market, and are now back in the unit waiting for Yazzy.








Monday, January 9, 2023

Rainy Days and Mondays

Another weekend gone in a blur. It's Monday and it's raining, but I’m not down. Feeling well rested, I woke up ready to seize the day and the week.

I’m also ready to buy more Mega tickets after this morning’s workout, because the pot is now up to $1.16 billion.

I don’t have to shell out cash for tickets this time because, with a total of $23 in winnings on four tickets, I’ll just roll that over into tomorrow’s draw.

Hopefully someone will win, so the pot will empty and I can stop playing until the next one.

I’d had an epiphany on Saturday.

You know how it is that when kids leave their favorite stuffed buddy at the airport and airport personnel adopt the stuffed buddy ─ take it on adventures in the airport, capture those adventures in photo form while waiting for the buddy to be reclaimed?

That’s what I should do with Bear, thought I.

So, I began setting up scenarios as to what Bear would be doing in my unit and snapping photos.

I printed the photos out on cardstock and affixes to a mini scrapbook album that’s been kicking around for a least 25 years — almost tossed it several times.

Glad I didn’t, because it worked out perfectly and though old was in great condition — pages not yellowed, binder not cracked, which is the beauty of working with the Creative Memories Scrapbooking system. Their products are meant to survive for generations.


Essentially, instead of purchasing a book, I made one, LOL.

Having now sent a text to Talker saying Bear really misses his little friend and wants to go home, I'm now expecting a little knock knock.

BTW, Talker took it well, sent me a laughing emoji, said she’d tell granddaughter.

Hopefully, Bear will be rehomed by end of day. However, on the off chance Yazzy does not pick up Bear in a timely manner, I’m continuing to take photos as I go along — just in case there’s a sequel with further adventures of Bear and because it’s gotten to be kinda fun.

I didn’t think to take Bear to the Pain Cave this morning, or grocery shopping when I popped into the market after. However, I did think to capture Bear making pizza this afternoon.


Fun though it's turned into, I won’t miss Bear when he goes home.

Friday, January 6, 2023

Knock Knock

"Who’s there" said I around 2:30, as if I didn’t already know because I’d heard the tiny footsteps coming up the stairs, recognized her knock.

This time it wasn’t just a hug Talker’s granddaughter wanted to give me. She also wanted to give me her stuffed bear.


She’d introduced me to her bear — a Christmas present, last time she’d knocked. So, not wanting her to give her bear away, and not wanting to take it, I stuck my head outside the door to see if Talker was downstairs monitoring the child.

She was.

"She wants to give me her bear", said I.

"That’s why she wanted to come upstairs", said Talker. "To give you a hug and the bear".

I didn’t feel right about it but, to not disappoint Talker’s granddaughter, I accepted the gift, said I’d take good care of the bear, give it honey.

Talker’s granddaughter seemed happy as she bounded back down the stairs — with the last of the Christmas chocolates I’d set aside.


Since she will undoubtedly be knocking at my door again, I’ll tell her, when she returns, the bear was crying because it missed her. See if I can get her to take it back without hurting her feelings.

Do you not think it strange for her to give me her Christmas gift, and do you not think it odd for Talker to okay the transaction — not discourage her from giving it away?

Talker did say, some months ago, that she might be moving out in March, move in with her daughter to help with the kids. I’m now kinda sorta hoping she does move, so her granddaughter won’t be hanging around.

A break in the rain and a few hours of sunshine today sufficiently dried up the Christmas patio decorations to where I was able to put things back into storage, prepare for rainstorm phase 2.

None of my Mega tickets yielded a return but, with the pot closing in on a billion dollars, I have to keep playing because the price of goods and services have spiraled out of control.

Stopping into the market after this morning’s workout I walked out with very little in the nature of real food, other than eggs, uncured bacon, tomatoes. The remainder was cleaning products, paper products and the total cost was $106.06!

Then came news that something weird is happening with SoCalGas. Bills are going to double, which means somewhere in the neighborhood of $300 a month to heat my little unit.

It's insane!

Speaking of insane ....


UPDATE: Round 15 ... You finally ARE the Speaker.

Tuesday, January 3, 2023

Pizza Tuesday

The verdict is in on the new Activity Director — she gets an F.

Patio decorations newly drenched by yesterday’s rain, I’m still not able to put things away. In the interim, I’ve been going through all the containers in the patio storage area, reorganizing and discarding what I’m finally able to let go of.

While busy doing so, I get a call from Red Light that the new Activity Director was having bingo today 1:00.

For purposes of clarity — every Tuesday is called Pizza Tuesday because it’s the day every Activity Director, since 2014, brings in full sized pizzas and sometimes side dishes for any resident that wants/needs and then the AD’s duty is either to provide us with bingo or crafts.

"If it’s not raining, I’ll join you guys", said I in response to Red Light.

It was only sprinkling outside when the time came, so off I go to the Community Room.

First off, the prize table was insulting.


"This is what they seem to like at my other properties. It saves from having to buy it", said AD.

Looking around for bingo cards and chips, all I saw was one small container of little plastic rings and tiny cards.

Evidently, this is what she offered last time for us to play with. Told that it wouldn’t work for us, she allowed Red Light to bring down the equipment we usually use and everyone present today, including AD, was expecting Red Light to do so again, but she didn’t show up.

The Baker called Red Light to check on the equipment coming down, but was told by Red Light, "I’ll have to call you back".

After a 15 minute wait, no call back from Red Light, no equipment and prizes not worth the effort, I got up and headed for the exit.

"Where are you going? We’re going to play bingo", I heard the Choker say (Choker being the resident who fell to the floor choking on food stuck in her throat at the surprise Birthday party for the Baker back in September).

"I’ve waited long enough", said I as I exited the room knowing I had better things to do.

Before heading back to the unit, since I was out, I jumped in the car, drove to the market for eggs and Mega tickets — now up to $785 million.

Hell will freeze over before I ever again waste my time going to the Community Room to participate in the new AD’s bingo or craft activities.

Didn't take long for her to prove herself to be just as bad as the last one.

Monday, January 2, 2023

Starting Over … Again

Happy New Year!

How’s it been so far?

A rainstorm came rolling in late Friday, and it literally did not stop raining until yesterday afternoon. Just long enough for a little someone to come knocking on my door to give me a hug.

I was peacefully multitasking — working on that needlepoint project, while simultaneously catching up on recorded TV shows when, all of a sudden, I heard a little "knock knock knock".

"OH NO!" I heard myself say, because I instantly knew who was at the door — Talker’s granddaughter.

She gave me a hug. I gave her candy and off she went.

At some point, Talker is going to ask if I mind the intrusion and, truthfully, I kinda do; but she’s a child, and beside their being some kind of unknown cosmic reason she feels the need to hug me, the fact is I’m not about being unkind to a child, so I’ll grit my teeth and lie to Talker — "Oh No. I don’t mind at all".

Putting patio decorations away on New Year’s Day did not go as planned because the steady rain left the patio and decorations drenched. Decorations will need a few days to dry out, but I don’t think there will be a few days, as rain is expected off/on until Saturday.

In fact, I was lucky to have made it to the new dentist — the all-female office, and back before the weather turned dark, gloomy and more rain came.

That all-female dental office had a cancellation, called to see if I wanted to come in today, rather than tomorrow. It meant I had to miss this morning’s workout, but I was anxious to have them look at the tooth the other dentist (let’s call him Bozo) said had a vertical break and needed a crown.

Guess what.

There is no broken tooth.

I have no need of a crown.

There is a slight grove in the tooth, but not a break.

There also were not the cavities Bozo said needed filling.

I was suspicious of that in the first place because I couldn’t understand how it was the dentist Bozo replaced had just done fillings a few months prior, and now Bozo was finding more.

Like Judge Judy always says, "If it doesn’t make sense, it’s usually not true".

It’s looking like this new dentist is going to work out. She and the hygienist did everything right, said everything right, including saying I still have a lot of silver in my mouth but no problem unless there’s leakage, which is contrary to what Bozo had to say and the Bozo he replaced had to say and the Bozo that took over Dr. McDreamy’s patient list had to say.

I had to start all over again — x-rays, client information form, yada yada yada.

Unlike the last three Bozos, the new dentist was thorough — did the periodontal probe to measure depth of gum pockets, took photos of each tooth, even showed me the x-rays as she discussed what looked good, what might need work.

No pressure. No frightening theories.

So, thus far, I am relieved and happy with this office.

Hopefully, this is the last change in dentist I’ll have to make in what remains of my lifetime.

I'm hoping I won’t outlive her, as I’ve done with past dentists/hygenists, and she won’t sell the practice or retire, because I don’t want to have to start all over yet again.

According to the hygienist, the dentist is in the process of buying her own building and moving the practice to a different area, because where she is now located has changed drastically.

I believe it about changes in the area, because I know the area and was pretty shocked at what I saw.

Arriving early, with time to kill, I drove around to see what I could see and spotted a lot of unhoused people.

Never saw that before in this particular downtown area.

Deciding to park in the CVS lot, a few blocks away from the dentist’s office, sit in the car, read Fawn of Grey Gardens, I'd barely become settled when I heard a voice come over a loudspeaker saying, "This property is under 24-hour surveillance. No loitering is allowed".

Having seen no other Black people in the area, I thought the message was directed at me — that security was watching, saw I’d parked but not gotten out of the car, so I played it off — got out of the car, went in and bought a few things I didn’t need to buy — because I don’t need any more clutter, but they were cute and half price.


While in CVS, I overheard a worker say some guy he had asked to leave just took a swing at him and the police were looking for the guy.

Leaving CVS, the voice again came over the loudspeaker — "This property is under 24-hour surveillance. No loitering is allowed" and I saw an unhoused person on the lot turn round and walk away.

So, it wasn’t about me. It must have been for an unhoused person the camera had spotted on the property while I was sitting in the car.

The dental office is located in an artsy fartsy district previously known for its comic book store, art galleries, art walks, etc.

The actual building the dentist is located in is beautiful — reminds me of buildings one would see in film noir, like the famous Bradbury Building, with the old stairs, elevators, ornate wood and ironworks.



Problem is, the unhoused have taken over the area, making it unsafe for businesses, visitors.

The building itself is locked up at night, but the unhoused have somehow found a way to bypass the lock, been found sleeping in the lobby.

It’s an epidemic, is everywhere, a growing social problem, and no solution in sight.

At any rate, my search for a new new dentist has come to a close. Now if I could just find a physician that gave a damn.