Another weekend avoiding people and the news.
I did okay with the people — only one sighting while picking up mail.
It was one of the Usual Suspects who said, "We miss you at bingo".
I changed the subject.
Knowing it was Bingo Friday, that she should have been in the Community Room playing, I asked if it was breaktime and if she’d won anything.
Yes, it was breaktime; No, she’d not won anything but had come close.
I escaped back to my unit, only to later get a text message from Talker ……… "We miss you at bingo".
Not going to work ladies. You’ll never draw me back in.
I wasn’t quite as successful in avoiding the news as I’d have liked. Headlines about the Zelensky thing at the White House would pop up every time I booted up the laptop and, even though I didn't click on the headline, read the details I didn't want to know, there was no escaping the topic even on Tik Tok.
At least Tik Tok gave me some relief from the seriousness of what happened, and our humiliation and embarrassment that it happened here.
I had a short visit from my baby girl Twin 1 over the weekend.
She’d spent the day in Los Angeles, with the plan to do a turnaround …… drive the 5 hours to Los Angeles from where she now lives, spend that day taking care of business, drive the 5 hours back.
As she prepared to drive the 5 hours back, reality set in. Realizing she was too tired and groggy to be on the road for that length of time, what with my place being about an hour and a half from where she was leaving from, she wisely did a layover at my place, got some sleep and, the next morning, drove the remaining three hours back to Nevada.
She made me laugh when, looking around, she uttered "It's so clean here. Who cleans for you?"
She has someone clean for her twice a week, her sister Twin 2 had someone come in clean for her, Granddaughter also has a cleaner, so I guess Twin 1 assumed someone cleaned for me as well.
I don't know where they got indulging in that kind of luxury from, but for sure it wasn't from me …… she who, at 81 years of age, still cleans for herself.
You raised them right. As a fully grown adult, Twin #1 recognized the limits of her energy, assessed her safety, and asked for help - something that is difficult for (alleged) grown ups to do. Regarding the housecleaning - consider that she may feel that she needs help to match the example and standards that she saw you set while she was growing up. She knows how it should be or how she wants it, she's just taking a different path to get there.
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Good points. I'll take 'em.
DeleteThat's good that she knew to take a rest and be able to visit for a bit before going on the rest of the trip. I would love to have a cleaning person but I can't see paying someone for something that I can easily do myself.
ReplyDeleteI'm with you ... why pay someone for what I can do for myself. I don't even use the dishwasher because why, when I can wash dishes with my own two hands, LOL.
DeleteCould you come over and clean our place. We can't seem to bring ourselves to do it. Love the Tik-Tok, even if the Chinese own it.
ReplyDeleteLOL. Sounds like you might need to hire a cleaner.
DeleteMy house is always decluttered, but not always clean. It took me a long time to figure out there's a difference
ReplyDeleteMine is the opposite ... always clean but not always decluttered.
DeleteOh, those Bingo Ladies are AFTER YOU to come back! BE STRONG! (I know you will!)
ReplyDeleteThey couldn't pay me to go back to boring bingo.
DeleteI have never had someone clean for me since I was a kid at home and even then .... I was cleaning, too!
ReplyDeleteMom raised you right.
DeleteYou are my hero. Our new housekeeper starts tomorrow!
ReplyDelete🤣🤣 You slay me! 🤣🤣
DeleteI'm with you on the news. I've turned off all my news ubscriptions but they still keep popping up. Please. Please. Please. I don't want to know - even if someone is going to drop the bomb on US. I will check back in on my own in four years.
ReplyDeleteI'll have to ask Manager, and the others around here who remain clueless, what their secret is. Obviously, you and I are doing it wrong and need to follow their method.
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