I over estimated in
thinking I’d have no contact with the folks for another two weeks.
Ran into The Baker
and another resident at the market.
Baker said, “I just
noticed they have gluten-free cupcakes in the Bakery section. If I bought you
some, could you eat them?”
The Baker is just the
nicest, sweetest, most thoughtful person you’d ever meet, always wanting to do
something for someone, but I had to let her down.
“No, because it’s not
just the gluten. It’s the high fructose corn syrup, baking powder, which has
corn starch in it, regular butter and regular sugar”.
These things I know
because I’ve learned the hard way – trial, error, cooking something with
everything I think wouldn’t set off a gut reaction, only to get sick, go back
and read what was in every ingredient until I pin-pointed the problem, which
generally is some version of soy, corn, wheat and put the product on my never again
list.
The Baker then said,
“Well, what if you gave me some recipes?”
I can do that, but I
probably won’t because she has no idea how many ingredients she’ll have to
stockpile that she normally doesn’t use.
Next on The Baker’s
mind was, “Everyone’s talking about seeing police on the complex this morning,
wondering what it was about.”
Believe it or not, I
knew the answer.
“That was a welfare
check on my elusive downstairs neighbor”.
Shortly after 10:00 this
morning, I heard voices underneath my patio. Looked out and observed Complex
Manager and both maintenance guys.
Few seconds later,
they were joined by two police officers.
The group then walked
to the door of the unit beneath me, where the weird resident lives. The
resident who is never seen because she comes in late, leaves early for work,
doesn’t talk to us the few times we’ve seen her taking out trash or heading to
her car, except to tell me, when I welcomed her to the quad, “I don’t like people!” (with considerable emphasis added). She evidently also doesn’t like sunlight either, because she never
opens her patio doors to let in fresh air, and keeps all her blinds shut tight.
At any rate, Community Manager knocked on the resident’s door.
No one answering, she
opened and let the officers in to take a look.
The officers came out
smiling.
Complex Manager
looked relieved.
I really think they
thought she might be dead in there.
She’s not old,
probably barely over the required 55 years of age, so I don’t know what
prompted the Welfare Check, but she's fine. I hear her coming in most nights, lately with male company.
Returning to the
complex from the market, more contact with residents was made when I walked through the
corridor, heading to the mailbox, and noticed something new had been added.
A fairly new resident has opened
a nail salon.
Moving on up.
THEN, the resident
I’ve only once or twice mentioned in this blog as Casino Lady, because she used
to work at one, approached me about that pervert who jumped the fence, tried to corner me at the mailbox area and exposed himself.
She thought what I’d
originally thought, that inasmuch as management had him on video, they should
post a photo of him, from waist up of course, so residents will know who to be
on the lookout for, and tells me she's taken it upon herself to request management do just
that.
Management told her it's not legal for them to do so.
Not satisfied with
that, she went to the police department with the issue and was told the police
department could not release a photo from the video either, but management can do so with the
victim’s consent.
She said, “I plan to
bring this up at tomorrow’s Residents/Management meeting” and wanted to know if
I, as the victim, would consent to the pervert’s photo being posted.
I don’t like that
word, victim, but “Hell yeah! Post him everywhere.”
That guy so rattled
me that I’m still overly nervous and jumpy. I want him caught. Besides, knowing they are being taped, and photos will be posted, might deter others from the multi-family complex next door from jumping the fence, for whatever purpose.
I wasn’t planning to
attend tomorrow’s meeting, but now I'm there.
I do not think I have the strength to live in a community where everyone knows everything I do.I think it would drive me mad. But I have to say you and my husband are great at naming those around you. It makes me giggle.
ReplyDeleteAnd that naming bit just made me giggle.
DeleteP.S. I hear what you’re saying about everyone knowing what you do but, with so many of us old and alone, it’s more of a comfort than an intrusion. If something were to happen to me, it might be days, weeks even, before a family member would notice no one has made contact with, and get around to checking on my well-being. The neighbor across the quad, downstairs and to the left, would ask someone to check on me immediately if she didn’t see my blinds open for a few days. Others would request a check, if they didn’t see my car move. I myself asked for a check on my next-door neighbor when I didn’t see or hear her door open for a few days and noticed cobwebs forming in the corner. Turned out she’d gone out of town for a week, didn’t let any of us know, but at least we were watchful and cared enough to have her checked on. The knowing and watchfulness makes me feel safe here.
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