This month’s Activity Calendar indicated "Social: Easter Celebration, 11:30 – 12:30" today.
A little early for Easter, thought I, inasmuch as Easter isn’t until Sunday the 20th ……… 420 Day.
How about that for a mashup.
The year started off with Wednesday, Thursday, Friday (WTF), and now the Day of Resurrection falls on the same day that smokers pay homage to the plant (420), with Earth Day following two days later.
As if this year couldn't get any weirder.
So anyway, I popped into the Community Room to not so much check on the Easter Celebration, more like to get intel as to what others are going to do about no longer having a drop off box to pay rent.
General consensus was "This is nonsense …… I’m not signing up for that thing (Rent Café) …… I don’t even have online …… She (Manager) just doesn’t want to do any work …… I’m walking my check into the office and, if they refuse to take it, I’ll take it back and rent not getting paid is on them".
I myself am still vacillating between opening a special bank account and mailing my rent check, but I’m leaning more towards mail because I’m a stubborn Capricorn …… the goat that doesn’t respond favorably to being forced to do something.
So, with me mailing, others walking into the office with their checks, we’ll see how next month goes …… what Manager comes up with to counter our resistance.
Dream Lover and Lu were both in the Community Room at the same time, but both were in motion; so I couldn’t tell if they were seated at the same table, but I assume they were.
No longer seeing the out in the open togetherness they once displayed, it’s hard to tell what their relationship status is. I didn’t sense any tension between the two, so status is a mystery at this point, but Dream Lover is back to giving me goo goo eyes, indicating he's ready to jump ship as soon as someone else comes along.
No tension between the two of them, but I did become aware of tension elsewhere in the room.
On the days I train at the Pain Cave, I’ve often seen a resident hanging out in her car on the lot.
I don’t know why she drives there, parks in front of the liquor store, sits (not drinking), sometimes chats with other people hanging around, but she does.
Let’s name her Car Dweller.
Two weeks ago, I saw Car Dweller having her car detailed by a homeless guy. Saying she pays him $40 to occasionally detail.
Okay, but why in front of the liquor store when the car wash is a block away.
She said the homeless guy drives her to the car wash, drives her back to the lot, does his detailing there.
I try not to judge others, but no way would I put myself in jeopardy by sitting in a car with a homeless individual, let alone have him drive me anywhere.
I'm cheap, run the jeep through the $2 coin wash, and thought $40 was a lot to pay for detailing but, when I pointed her getting her car detailed on the lot out to Trainer, he said the going rate is around $240.
So, $40 is a deal, and it’s helping the homeless guy out, so whatever.
What happened this morning was Car Dweller slid up to me and began venting …… "She’s grabbing pizzas, feeding the homeless".
"Who?", asked I.
"Her" she nodded towards Greedy Grabby.
Remember her, Greedy Grabby? …… the resident who acted as though rules did not apply to her, ran a crew of residents, all women from her home country, who catered to her, followed her lead.
They all got banned from the local senior center for stealing coffee/tea and Greedy herself made a complete fool of herself, caused a scene when she didn't get her way in a craft session.
She's still here, her followers have, through the years, gone elsewhere; her husband disappeared years ago — I think he passed away, but I've never cared enough to check on that. She now lives with a young man I assume is one of her sons or a relative, but could be a boyfriend for all I know, as I've never cared to ask about that either.
I don't know when her selfish self-centered arse became mother earth, feeding the homeless, but Car Dweller was in a rage that she, Car Dweller, was at the counter to get one of the few pizzas remaining, when Greedy Grabby, who’d already taken a pizza out to a homeless guy, came back to grab more to give away; saying, "She (meaning Greedy Grabby) had the nerve to ask me if I wanted one, like duh, I’m a resident, these are for residents".
I dunno. Car Dweller will pay a homeless guy $40 to detail her car, but gets upset, begrudges Greedy Grabby giving our free/donated pizzas to the homeless.
It was just yesterday when, headed for the other market, the prison looking one after working out, I saw a homeless guy gingerly stepping on hot concrete and hot asphalt, making his way down the street with no shoes on his feet.
It looked really painful.
I thought about giving him the flip flops I keep in the car, to wear for pedicures, but remembered I keep a pair of walking shoes in the trunk for when I’m out and about and the mood hits to do some walking. So, I pulled over, gave the guy the walking shoes.
The long and the short of it is, I can always buy another pair of shoes, and Car Dweller can afford to buy a pizza.
In other news, the Baker says she’s planning a Memorial Day BBQ. She and her family are providing the meat and potato salad, wants me to design a flyer and a signup sheet for who’s coming and what they will bring.
We have a lot of new people, so I’ll probably go to this event to find out who’s who.
Everyone is rushing things. Today was the Easter Celebration when Easter is a whole 12 days away, and now the Baker is planning 48 day ahead for Memorial Day.
I suppose the shops, stores, Activity Director will be planning for Halloween in July.
I love the updates on your neighbors. You sound like my husband and I. He keeps forgetting their names (not their real names) and says things like "the lady up the street". I am thinking about writing a score card out for him so he can keep track.
ReplyDeleteI have to be careful to not refer to a neighbor by her blog name. I've come close a time or two, LOL.
DeleteLots going on! Glad you're keeping your ear to the ground.
ReplyDeleteMy ears tell me the rumblings are getting loud. I'm on pins and needles wondering what Manager will do to silence those rumblings.
DeleteIf you put this on Substack you could probably make some money!
ReplyDeleteI had to look up Substack, as never heard of. Now that I know, who knows what the future will bring. If blogger ever shuts down, I'll keep Substack in mind.
DeleteI disagree about the pizza. I think residents should get first shot. Then, if there's any left they're fair game.
ReplyDeleteYou and Dawn make a good point.
DeleteIt was so good of you to give the shoes to the poor homeless man. Also very generous of Baker and family to provide meat and potato salad for the group!
ReplyDeleteYou two are very giving people, as I have told you before! JanF
The Baker is generous to a fault.
DeleteYou have more drama than I do at my apartment complex. lol Halloween in July would be funny.
ReplyDeleteDrama at your complex is way more interesting. Ours is just old folks behaving badly.
DeleteIf you do decide to pay by Mail, make sure it's Certified or Registered so the Office has to Sign for receipt of it and you have proof it arrived. I wouldn't Trust them at this juncture. As for the Pizza handout, so long as all the Residents got theirs then so long as none are wasted the handing out to the Homeless is benevolent. But, I would be inclined to make sure Residents did receive theirs before someone took it upon themselves to just give it away, since, she didn't buy it. If she bought it then I'd feel she could give it to whomever. If she really wants to be Charitable she should buy what she gives away. I think she just likes feeling like SHE is Charitable by giving to the Needy something she didn't even pay for herself, it's presumptuous of her and could end up making it so Pizza quit being Donated if the Donor finds out it's not going to who they Paid for it to be received by, which would be a shame. Seems lots is going on, but you're keeping informed.
ReplyDeleteI really truly hate to fold, but looks like Management is going to win this one because I don't want to have to go to the post office every month to get mail certified, and can't trust the office to not accidentally on purpose lose my check, so I'll be opening an account, signing up for Rent Café. Your logic on Greedy Grabby giving away what she has not paid for is a good point.
DeleteGosh, never thought about the pavement so hot that bare feet would hurt. Thanks for your kindness. Linda in Kansas
ReplyDeleteI made the mistake of walking barefoot out onto my patio. Realized my mistake instantly, as the concrete was so hot as to burn the bottom of my feet. So, I can't imagine how painful it was for that guy to struggle along with no shoes.
DeleteGiving out left-over pizza to homeless people is a nice thing to do, but ONLY if the residents have finished eating. If your Manager or Activities Director were on the ball, THEY should be there to oversee leftovers to prevent or reduce such conflict. IMHO, Greedy Grabby and Car Dweller could both benefit from professional psychiatric help &/or medication or failing that, a good, swift kick in their arses, LOL!
ReplyDeleteActivity Director was there. She should have taken control of who got what. I think I'll trot on down there next Tuesday to see if Greedy Grabby and Car Dweller have a repeat, mention to Activity Director she might set some rules as to who gets what.
DeleteSounds like you've got a lot of interesting things going on in your community right now. Anytime we have left over food from a party it gets delivered to a homeless shelter.
ReplyDeleteThat' a good idea but, around here, folks are allowed to take what's left after an event. They load up, so there's never anything left to donate.
DeleteI had an interesting encounter going into the thrift store today. There was a very polite man in a wheel chair by the entrance. We spoke good day to each other and then he asked if I had a dollar. I said I only had plastic. He asked if I could buy him something to eat from the Dollar Store next door. When I was through shopping at the Thrift with no purchase, I did go to the Dollar Store but while I was in the Thrift another homeless/disabled man now sat now the exit door. I had seen this second man several times before and other than missing most of his teeth did not look homeless or disabled. So I did not buy the first man anything to eat because I didn't want to feed the second man. After I drove off, I really felt bad because I had wanted to help the first man. I'm still not sure if I should have just bought food for both. I feel bad. They might have both really needed the help.
ReplyDeleteThat's a tough one, but I'd go with what my instincts led me to do, and your instincts led you to drive off without purchasing food for either one. BTW, did it look like they were working together and thought perhaps buying food for both is what they thought you'd do?
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