Wednesday, June 4, 2025

Mish Mosh and a Correction

We had some freaky weather yesterday.

The day started off hot and muggy, followed by cool and gloomy, then came the rain, Flash Flood Warnings, thunder, lightning, ending with the return of sun and heat. All this between 8AM and 4PM.

It was like the weather gods had a work schedule, threw everything at us in one shift.

The only weather-related event that didn’t happen yesterday was an earthquake or a fire.

Also what didn’t happen yesterday was, even though Management indicated the only way we would be getting an Activity Calendar for the month was through signing up for Rent Café; yet and still, after having capitulated, signing up, no calendar of events was forthcoming, which prompted me to walk down to the Community Room to see what if anything was going on.

The joint was jumping. In addition to the day being Pizza Tuesday, there was coffee, donuts, a mish mosh of Arts and Crafts going on.

Trash Tosser was in the room, chatting with I forget who; while Dream Lover, who had been the recipient of her trash being tossed at his door, was also present — sitting at the opposite end of the room.

I sensed no tension. Energy in the room was high; everyone was on their best behavior.

I imagine the strong coffee (I had a cup, and it was strong enough to make my hair stand on end) and sugary donuts had a lot to do with the high energy, LOL.

Di was in the room — the 60 something who was in a relationship with Meat Man’s 20 something son until the son turned Baby Reindeer, ending in police involvement.

Di is very pretty for her age, gets around well, but I think she’s losing it.

She always lights up when she sees me, waves and says "Hi, Shirley" but, when I walked into last week’s BBQ, she waved, greeted me with "Hi, Diane".

She’s known me for as long as I’ve lived here, but it’s just in the last two years she’s been calling me by random names.

When I walked into the Community Room yesterday, it was "Hi, Joanne".

I don’t even try to correct her any longer. I just go with it.

Crafts was a mish mosh. Supposedly to be an uninspiring writing of Father’s Day messages on blank canvases, when no one seemed interested, it switched to a new resident bringing down some of her leftover crafting supplies — wood, stencils, paint.

I chose to do a stencil project.


Others worked on pre-printed canvases.


Buttons, our 88 year old that lives alone and is always on the go …… takes the public bus to the catholic church and a shuttle to the Senior Center to take classes/participate in activities at those places; and is a crafter — knits, crochets, writes poetry, plays bingo with pretty buttons, outdid all of us by painting a little wooden tray, then painting little wood flowers to display in the tray.


Returning to my unit before the rain began, positioning myself in front of the never-ending needlepoint to put in some time on that project, I flipped on the craft lamp and found it didn’t turn on.

Fortunately, I had a replacement bulb.

Unfortunately, the replacement didn’t work. The lamp still would not turn on.

The lamp, which had seen better days and was literally being held together with electrical tape, had died. So, I took it to the dumpster, ordered a replacement and then began to bemoan the fact I’d not be able to see clearly enough to do any needlepoint work.

Until …… I remembered the sun lamp I’d ordered when lousy weather dragged on for so long that I’d experienced an episode of SAD (seasonal affective disorder).

Thing was, after last Halloween I’d turned that sun lamp into a skeleton lamp.

Not wanting to undo Skelly the skeleton from the structure in order to use the sun lamp as a craft lamp until the new lamp arrives, I made it work.


While in the Community Room, I got an update on Painted Rock Lady.

I’d posted yesterday that I didn’t see Fire Rescue take her away on a stretcher. Turns out, I didn’t see that because an ambulance had earlier arrived, taken her away.

Talker had gone over to check on her, found her lying on the floor, called an ambulance. Both the amulance and Fire Rescue responded.

Painted Rock Lady has been calling friends from the hospital, saying she wants to recouperate at home, rather than in the hospital.

Since being found on the floor signifies she obviously can’t do that living alone as she does, friends are urging her to go to rehab.

My guess is Painted Rock Lady feels the end is near, doesn’t want that end to come in the hospital or rehab, but at home. She’s been around long enough to know the pattern — that when residents go to rehab, we rarely see them return.

24 comments:

  1. And where is the calendar? Jeeesh. At least it sounds like residents are taking matters into their own hands. The stencil is really sweet and I love the coffee sign!!!

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    1. Things seem to work out better when we do it ourselves.

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  2. Wow, Buttons is (as you point out) a real going concern! Love to see Skelly the Sun Lamp making itself useful. And I see why that needlepoint is taking so long -- it's friggin HUGE!

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    1. Only 4 months to Halloween, when Skelly's lamp duties are put on hold while he graces the patio.

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  3. P.S. Your coffee stencil project turned out great too! Nice addition to your cowboy theme corner.

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    1. Very few stencils were available, so it was luck that one was coffee themed, tailor made for me.

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  4. I am usually good with names, but a few years back I worked with a girl named Heather but I kept calling her Beth for some reason; and I couldn't stop.
    Then one day she walked into work and I said, "Hey Beth," and she snapped, "MY NAME IS HEATHER!!!!!!!!"
    And because it kinda made me smile, I just looked at her and said, "Oh, that's pretty."

    I love the skeleton lamp; good use!!

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    1. I bet your response only pissed her off more, LOL. If I recall correctly, I got the idea of turning Skelly into a lamp from something Debra at She Who Seeks had posted. It's a great way to store Skelly until Halloween.

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  5. Fun update! I still don't know why they can't print your activities calendar out and keep in a mail slot near the office, so if anyone wants one.

    I can't blame Painted Rock Lady. All my grandparents died at home in there sleep. I hope I go the same way.

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    1. Management is just so iffy. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. Painted Rock Lady is fortunate to have neighbors who care enough to check in on her daily, but being incapacitated as she is, it's best she be where there are people around her 24/7. We've had residents pass away and not be discovered for days, which would probably be my fate as well but for the fact Trainer would know something was wrong if I didn't show up on a Monday, Wednesday, Friday. I'm screwed if I pass away on a weekend, LOL.

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  6. Hahaha. Love the Coffee is My Spirit Animal.

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    1. and the slogan is pretty much a fact for me 😉

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  7. Skelley is barfing out a lamp! If you're weather is bad, come to K.C. Yesterday I had sirens, dark clouds, 1 1/2 inch of rain in 45 minutes, and 2 tornados. No one hurt, a few trees fell over and smashed houses and cars. The tornado cruising over the double stadium parking lot knocked down some porta-potties. That wasn't in the Wizard of Oz. Linda in Kansas

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    1. Out weather gods were angry, but seems yours were much angrier.

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  8. I guess if there’s no calendar it means there’s too much going on. Glad you checked things out. I LOVE your new crafts lamp!

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    1. Since the office can't seem to follow through on Calendars, us residents need to start sending up smoke signals to let us know when to come down to the Community Room for fun activities.

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  9. That pic of your Shelly is the funniest thing I’ve seen in a long time! Thanks for the laugh!

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    1. Skelly is a big help. I couldn't' continue working on the project without him, LOL

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  10. As Debra says, that needlepoint is huge. How did you ever get the courage to buy such a large piece? Were other ones you have done just as big? JanF

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    1. I did a same size piece for Twin 2 at https://bootsandbraids.blogspot.com/2021/01/everything-hurts.html. It only took a little over a year. This one is taking so long because of its multiple colors.

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  11. I'm glad to see that Skelly is so adaptable in a pinch... and coffee is as good a Spirit Animal as any other, LOL!

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    1. Skelly is the perfect roommate ... doesn't talk and helpful when needed.

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  12. I feel bad for Painted Rock Lady. I hope she can get through this. Skelly looks so awesome. Glad he is helping.

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    1. She's been struggling for a looooong time. In her place, I'd want the struggle to be over.

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